Cadi Gwiddon 🏳️⚧️🏴☠️🏳️🌈<p>It's 3:00 am. I'm about to take my fairy transdaughter to NYC to undergo FFS. The next few days are going to be challenging, but the experience will change us both. Accepting and actualizing this responsibility will help me grow as a person, a friend, and teach me the value of commitment and care; I will learn something of motherhood.</p><p>The situation is further complicated by the fact that she is someone who hurt me, but not without some responsibility on my part. I gave my commitment to be this role in her life though, and my word is one of the only things I have to give that is meaningful, besides my time and attention.</p><p>If I'm not being challenged, then I am not growing.<br><a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/trans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trans</span></a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/FFS" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FFS</span></a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/transmothering" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>transmothering</span></a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/growth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>growth</span></a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/life" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>life</span></a> <a href="https://chaosfem.tw/tags/adulting" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>adulting</span></a></p>