Mal<p>In the 1980s I lived in <a href="https://mastodon.africa/tags/Malawi" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Malawi</span></a>. These were the years of Hastings Banda, aka His Excellency, the Life President of Malawi, Ngwazi Dr H Kamuzu Banda.</p><p>My brother and I were expatriate teenagers. We were explicitly warned not to make comments about the regime, but it didn't take at all long for us to internalise that.</p><p>It was very clear that we were not materially repressed as Malawians were. The worst that would happen to us was deportation. But the strictures were easy to rationalise: don't get into trouble, because you don't want your Malawian friends to get into trouble by association. That was the real risk.</p><p>In my time in <a href="https://mastodon.africa/tags/SouthAfrica" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SouthAfrica</span></a>, as an adult, I have rarely needed to temper my voice out of concern for myself or others. That changed quite a bit when Ntando and I started a relationship. She is a <a href="https://mastodon.africa/tags/Zimbabwean" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Zimbabwean</span></a> with relatively fragile tenure in SA. Pissing off the wrong people would make her more vulnerable than either of us wants her to be.</p><p>And this is my point. For all that people bang on about freedom of speech being a right, it doesn't exist because of a guarantee in law. It exists only when anyone has the surrounding liberty. In our case, it comes down to whether what we say prejudices Ntando's residence.</p><p>You can see the operation of this in <a href="https://mastodon.africa/tags/America" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>America</span></a> now. The <a href="https://mastodon.africa/tags/FirstAmendment" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FirstAmendment</span></a> means nothing to a university, an institution or individual when <a href="https://mastodon.africa/tags/Trump" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Trump</span></a> threatens defunding or deportation.</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.africa/tags/FreedomOfSpeech" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FreedomOfSpeech</span></a> is not only a fundamental right - it's a barometric right. You know society is fucked when people are unable to speak due to infringements of their other rights.</p>